Survival got you here.

Performance kept

you going.

BUT NEITHER CAN MAKE YOU WHOLE.

Helping high-achieving Christian women move beyond survival and performance into secure identity in Christ through mind renewal, spiritual formation, and lasting wholeness.

You don't need more information.

You need formation.

Hi, I'm Merline,

Army veteran, author, transformational coach, and founder of The Uncommon U™.

I equip high-achieving women to renew their minds, deepen their identity in Christ, and live from wholeness. This isn't self-help or motivation—it's Scripture-rooted formation that takes you from survival to whole, until Christ is formed in you.

until Christ is formed in you

– Merline

"...until Christ is formed in you"

Galatians 4:19

THE UNCOMMON U

The Uncommon U is a Christ-centered formation brand and community for high-achieving women who are weary of striving and ready to live from the security of their identity in Christ.

Our mission is to help women move from performance-based living to a life formed in Christ. We believe lasting transformation doesn't come from trying harder—it comes from allowing God to renew your mind, align your heart with His truth, and shape you into the likeness of Christ.

The Uncommon U Formation Experience™

This experience centers on five focus areas we believe are foundational and instrumental to the transformation process—identity, mind, spirit, alignment, spiritual formation, and wholeness.

This process is carried out by two movements: The A.C.T. Pathway™, which moves you into transformation, and The S.O.A.R. Posture™, which sustains you there.

BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

Several ways we walk together.

The uncommon U COACHING

One on One Christ-Centered Coaching

Renew your mind. Care for your soul. Live from your true identity in Christ.

Through personalized one-on-one coaching, I help women shift beyond survival mode and into Christ-centered wholeness.

Using The UNCOMMON U™ Framework, A.C.T. PATHWAY™ and the S.O.A.R. Process™, we uncover limiting beliefs, renew thought patterns, strengthen emotional resilience, and cultivate a deeper awareness of God's truth.

Together, we focus on mind renewal, soul care, identity in Christ, and practical biblical guidance that helps you walk confidently in your faith, purpose, and calling.

Formed not a form of.

-Merline Ulloth

THE UNCOMMON U COMMUNITY

A Christ-Centered Formation Community

Healed Girls Circle is a community of women pursuing Christ together—renewing our minds, growing in spiritual maturity, and encouraging one another as Christ is formed in us.

This is a space where survival gives way to surrender—where biblical truth, spiritual formation, authentic community, and accountability come together to cultivate lasting transformation.

until Christ is formed in you

BOOKS & RESOURCES

Biblical tools to equip and empower your growth.

FEATURED RESOURCE

PAUSE FOR 5 ON 5™

Overwhelm doesn't have to win.

You just need to learn to pause and return.

Pause For 5 On 5™ is a simple, Scripture-centered rhythm for the overwhelmed Christian woman. Silence the noise in your mind, and come back into alignment with God — five minutes at a time.

This book was born out of real burnout, overwhelm, and the quiet realization that strength isn't found in pushing harder — but in returning and resting in God.

THE UNCOMMON U EVENTS

SPEAKING

Faith stirring, practical messages that create life changes unto the glory of God.

WORKSHOPS

Biblical backed focused on mind interactive teaching. focus on mind renewal, identity, and soul health.

RETREATS

Sacred spaces for rest, healing, reflection, soul and spiritual renewal. Basking in the Lord's presence.

The uncommon u podcast

The Beautiful Exchange is where we have real conversations about faith,

healing, resilience, identity, and the beautiful exchanges God makes.

The Beautiful Exchange - Here, we have honest conversations about identity, trauma, self-discipline, and spiritual formation — and what it truly looks like to walk with Jesus through the process of being made whole.

We overcome by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of our testimony — and we love not our lives unto death. (Rev. 12:11)

Because silence was never part of the plan.

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Speaking That Reaches the Woman Beneath Survival Living

Merline delivers Scripture-centered messages that stirs faith for provoking life change unto the glory of God.

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HEAR FROM WOMEN

WHO ARE WALKING THE JOURNEY

READY TO BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

THE GOAL IS NOT TO BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.

Beloved, you already are.

You just need to step into formation.