Survival got you here.

Performance kept

you going.

BUT NEITHER CAN MAKE YOU WHOLE.

Helping high-achieving Christian women move beyond survival and performance into secure identity in Christ through mind renewal, spiritual formation, and lasting wholeness.

You don't need more information.

You need formation.

THE UNCOMMON U

As a Christ-Centered formation brand As a Christ-centered formation brand, we follow a journey through five key areas—identity, mind, spirit, alignment, and wholeness—which we believe are vital to your transformation.

These five areas make up The Uncommon U Framework™, our Christ-centered process for lasting change. Two movements carry you through it: the A.C.T. Pathway™ moves you into transformation, and the S.O.A.R. Posture™ helps you stay there.

Hi, I'm Merline,

Army veteran, author, transformational coach, and founder of The Uncommon U™.

The Uncommon U exists for the high-achieving Christian woman who's done surviving and ready to be whole. This isn't self-help or motivation—it's Scripture-rooted formation that takes you from surviving to whole, until Christ is formed in you.

until Christ is formed in you

– Merline

"...until Christ is formed in you"

Galatians 4:19

BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

Several ways we walk together.

The uncommon U COACHING

One on One Christ-Centered Coaching

Renew your mind. Care for your soul. Live from your true identity in Christ.

Through personalized one-on-one coaching, I help women shift beyond survival mode and into Christ-centered wholeness.

Using The UNCOMMON U™ Framework, A.C.T. PATHWAY™ and the S.O.A.R. Process™, we uncover limiting beliefs, renew thought patterns, strengthen emotional resilience, and cultivate a deeper awareness of God's truth.

Together, we focus on mind renewal, soul care, identity in Christ, and practical biblical guidance that helps you walk confidently in your faith, purpose, and calling.

Formed not a form of.

-Merline Ulloth

THE UNCOMMON U COMMUNITY CIRCLE

A Christ-Centered Formation Community

Healed Girls Circle is a community of women pursuing Christ together—renewing our minds, growing in spiritual maturity, and encouraging one another as Christ is formed in us.

This is a space where survival gives way to surrender—where biblical truth, spiritual formation, authentic community, and accountability come together to cultivate lasting transformation.

until Christ is formed in you

BOOKS & RESOURCES

Biblical tools to equip and empower your growth.

FEATURED RESOURCE

PAUSE FOR 5 ON 5™

Overwhelm doesn't have to win.

You just need to learn to pause and return.

Pause For 5 On 5™ is a simple, Scripture-centered rhythm for the overwhelmed Christian woman. Silence the noise in your mind, and come back into alignment with God — five minutes at a time.

This book was born out of real burnout, overwhelm, and the quiet realization that strength isn't found in pushing harder — but in returning and resting in God.

THE UNCOMMON U EVENTS

SPEAKING

Faith stirring, practical messages that create life changes unto the glory of God.

WORKSHOPS

Biblical backed focused on mind interactive teaching. focus on mind renewal, identity, and soul health.

RETREATS

Sacred spaces for rest, healing, reflection, soul and spiritual renewal. Basking in the Lord's presence.

The uncommon u podcast

The Beautiful Exchange is where we have real conversations about faith,

healing, resilience, identity, and the beautiful exchanges God makes.

The Beautiful Exchange - Here, we have honest conversations about identity, trauma, self-discipline, and spiritual formation — and what it truly looks like to walk with Jesus through the process of being made whole.

We overcome by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of our testimony — and we love not our lives unto death. (Rev. 12:11)

Because silence was never part of the plan.

Book MERLINE for YOUR NEXT EVENT

Speaking That Reaches the Woman Beneath Survival Living

Merline delivers Scripture-centered messages that stirs faith for provoking life change unto the glory of God.

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HEAR FROM WOMEN

WHO ARE WALKING THE JOURNEY

READY TO BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

THE GOAL IS NOT TO BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.

Beloved, you already are.

You just need to step into formation.