Survival got you here.
Performance kept
you going.
BUT NEITHER CAN MAKE YOU WHOLE.
Helping high-achieving Christian women move beyond survival and performance into secure identity in Christ through mind renewal, spiritual formation, and lasting wholeness.
You don't need more information.
You need formation.
Hi, I'm Merline,
Army veteran, author, transformational coach, and founder of The Uncommon U™.
I equip high-achieving women to renew their minds, deepen their identity in Christ, and live from wholeness. This isn't self-help or motivation—it's Scripture-rooted formation that takes you from survival to whole, until Christ is formed in you.
until Christ is formed in you
– Merline
"...until Christ is formed in you"
Galatians 4:19
THE UNCOMMON U ™
The Uncommon U is a Christ-centered formation brand and community for high-achieving women who are weary of striving and ready to live from the security of their identity in Christ.
Our mission is to help women move from performance-based living to a life formed in Christ. We believe lasting transformation doesn't come from trying harder—it comes from allowing God to renew your mind, align your heart with His truth, and shape you into the likeness of Christ.
The Uncommon U Formation Experience™
This experience centers on five focus areas we believe are foundational and instrumental to the transformation process—identity, mind, spirit, alignment, spiritual formation, and wholeness.
This process is carried out by two movements: The A.C.T. Pathway™, which moves you into transformation, and The S.O.A.R. Posture™, which sustains you there.
BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY
Several ways we walk together.
The uncommon U COACHING
One on One Christ-Centered Coaching
Renew your mind. Care for your soul. Live from your true identity in Christ.
Through personalized one-on-one coaching, I help women shift beyond survival mode and into Christ-centered wholeness.
Using The UNCOMMON U™ Framework, A.C.T. PATHWAY™ and the S.O.A.R. Process™, we uncover limiting beliefs, renew thought patterns, strengthen emotional resilience, and cultivate a deeper awareness of God's truth.
Together, we focus on mind renewal, soul care, identity in Christ, and practical biblical guidance that helps you walk confidently in your faith, purpose, and calling.
Formed not a form of.
-Merline Ulloth
THE UNCOMMON U COMMUNITY
A Christ-Centered Formation Community
Healed Girls Circle is a community of women pursuing Christ together—renewing our minds, growing in spiritual maturity, and encouraging one another as Christ is formed in us.
This is a space where survival gives way to surrender—where biblical truth, spiritual formation, authentic community, and accountability come together to cultivate lasting transformation.
until Christ is formed in you
BOOKS & RESOURCES
Biblical tools to equip and empower your growth.
FEATURED RESOURCE
PAUSE FOR 5 ON 5™
Overwhelm doesn't have to win.
You just need to learn to pause and return.
Pause For 5 On 5™ is a simple, Scripture-centered rhythm for the overwhelmed Christian woman. Silence the noise in your mind, and come back into alignment with God — five minutes at a time.
This book was born out of real burnout, overwhelm, and the quiet realization that strength isn't found in pushing harder — but in returning and resting in God.
THE UNCOMMON U EVENTS
SPEAKING
Faith stirring, practical messages that create life changes unto the glory of God.
WORKSHOPS
Biblical backed focused on mind interactive teaching. focus on mind renewal, identity, and soul health.
RETREATS
Sacred spaces for rest, healing, reflection, soul and spiritual renewal. Basking in the Lord's presence.
The uncommon u podcast
The Beautiful Exchange is where we have real conversations about faith,
healing, resilience, identity, and the beautiful exchanges God makes.
The Beautiful Exchange - Here, we have honest conversations about identity, trauma, self-discipline, and spiritual formation — and what it truly looks like to walk with Jesus through the process of being made whole.
We overcome by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of our testimony — and we love not our lives unto death. (Rev. 12:11)
Because silence was never part of the plan.
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Speaking That Reaches the Woman Beneath Survival Living
Merline delivers Scripture-centered messages that stirs faith for provoking life change unto the glory of God.
Key Notes
Workshops
Retreats
Breakouts
Church Groups
Ministry Support
Military Spouses/Veterans Events
Testimonials
HEAR FROM WOMEN
WHO ARE WALKING THE JOURNEY
I'm an accomplished real estate professional, but I was completely ensnared by crippling anxiety. One day you're closing deals, the next day everything falls apart. I was exhausted from trying to stay strong and keep performing while falling apart inside. I was recommended by a friend who had worked with Merline, everything shifted. She didn't just understand my anxiety—she saw beyond it. She saw through the "successful professional" mask I was wearing and spoke to the woman underneath who was barely holding it together. She taught me that my identity wasn't tied to market fluctuations or my last commission check. For the first time, I learned what it meant to rest in who God created me to be, not what I could produce. The anxiety didn't just get managed—it got replaced by genuine peace. Merline didn't just help me cope with the chaos. She helped me find my center in the storm. I'm still in real estate, but now I'm operating from a completely different place inside. — Jennifer R., Real Estate Professional
I was an executive who looked successful on paper but was drowning internally. Stuck in shame, broken identity, hiding behind my achievements while just surviving each day. Working with Merline changed everything. She shame is gone. I'm more aware of who I actually am—not who I thought I had to be. I've learned to surrender to the Lord instead of trying to control everything. For the first time in years, I'm walking a clear path. This isn't just coaching. This is life transformation. Oner of the best investments I've ever made in myself." — BDH., Executive Leader
Merline has a genuine heart for the Lord and has always cared for the wellbeing and success for women. Her life, voice, and presence reflect both compassion and Kingdom Purpose.
