Survival got you here.

Performance kept

you going.

BUT NEITHER CAN MAKE YOU WHOLE.

Helping high-achieving Christian women move beyond survival and performance into secure identity in Christ — through mind renewal and spiritual formation.

You don't need more information.

You need formation.

THE UNCOMMON U

The Uncommon U™ is a Christ-centered spiritual formation brand. We exist to help women become who they already are in Christ — not through striving, but through formation.

The Uncommon U™ was founded on one simple belief: women were never meant to spend their lives merely surviving or performing for acceptance. They were created to live with purpose, confidence, and wholeness. Through Christ-centered transformation coaching, biblical teaching, and practical tools, equipping women to move beyond limiting beliefs, embrace their true identity, and experience lasting transformation—one intentional step at a time.

The Christian life is not about performing for God. It's about allowing Christ to be formed in us.

Until Christ Is Formed in You. Galatians 4:19

"My little children, for whom I am again in the anguish of childbirth until Christ is formed in you!"

Galatians 4:19 (ESV)

Are You Ready to Transform

Your Life?

Bible teacher, author, Christ-centered transformation coach, and Army veteran Merline Ulloth founded The Uncommon U™ because she believes women were created for more than merely surviving life or striving to prove their worth. After decades of walking alongside women in leadership, ministry, military life, and coaching, she recognized a common struggle — many were living from performance instead of purpose, self-doubt instead of confidence, and striving instead of wholeness.

Through Christ-centered coaching, she equips women to build emotional resilience, reshape limiting beliefs, renew their thinking, and step into lasting transformation. Using practical coaching tools, biblical principles, and her signature A.C.T. Pathway™ — Acknowledge. Confront. Transform. — she helps women move from where they are to who God made them to be.

– Merline

GO DEEPER

Several ways we walk together.

The uncommon U COACHING

One-on-One Christ-Centered Coaching

Renew your mind. Care for your soul. Live from your true identity in Christ.

Through personalized one-on-one coaching, I help women move beyond survival mode into Christ-centered wholeness.

Using The A.C.T. Pathway™ and The S.O.A.R. Posture™, we uncover limiting beliefs, renew thought patterns, strengthen emotional resilience, and cultivate a deeper awareness of God's truth.

Together, we focus on mind renewal, soul care, identity in Christ, and practical biblical guidance that helps you walk confidently in your faith, purpose, and calling.

THE UNCOMMON U COMMUNITY

A Christ-Centered Formation Community

Healed Girls Circle is a community of women pursuing Christ together — healing the inner girl so the whole woman can walk in her true identity. Together we renew our minds, grow in spiritual maturity, and encourage one another as Christ is formed in us.

This is a space where survival gives way to surrender, where biblical truth, spiritual formation, authentic community, and accountability come together to cultivate lasting transformation.

The uncommon u podcast

A Christ-Centered Conversations

The Beautiful Exchange is where we have real conversations about faith, healing, resilience, identity,

and the beautiful exchanges God makes.

Here we have honest conversations about identity, trauma, self-discipline, and spiritual formation — and what it truly looks like to walk with Jesus through the process of being made whole.

"They have conquered him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, for they loved not their lives even unto death." Revelation 12:11 (ESV)

Because silence was never part of the plan.

THE UNCOMMON U EVENTS

Speaking, workshops, and retreats that make room for formation.

SPEAKING

Faith-stirring, practical messages that create life change to the glory of God.

WORKSHOPS

Biblically grounded, interactive teaching focused on mind renewal, identity, soul health, and spiritual formation.

RETREATS

Sacred spaces for rest, healing, reflection, and renewal — time

set apart in the Lord's presence.

BOOKS

Biblical tools to equip and empower your growth.

FEATURED RESOURCE

PAUSE FOR 5 ON 5™

Overwhelm doesn't have to win.

You just need to learn to pause and return.

Pause For 5 On 5™ is a simple, Scripture-centered rhythm for the overwhelmed Christian woman — silence the noise in your mind and come back into alignment with God, five minutes at a time.

Born out of real burnout and the quiet realization that strength isn't found in pushing harder, but in returning and resting in God.

Book MERLINE for YOUR NEXT EVENT

Speaking That Reaches the Woman Beneath Survival Living

Merline delivers Scripture-centered messages that stirs faith for provoking life change unto the glory of God.

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  • Ministry Support

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Testimonials

HEAR FROM WOMEN WHO ARE WALKING THE JOURNEY

READY TO BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY

THE GOAL IS NOT TO BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.

Beloved, you already are.

You just need to step into formation.

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